Trying to Get Your Ex Back? Don’t Make These Fatal Mistakes.

Posted on July 13, 2010

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Alright, so you are trying to win your ex back and patch your relationship up. That is a good thing. First things first: make sure you are not making any of the following mistakes or else you may end up losing your ex forever…

Trying to get back together too fast…

Yes, it sounds really strange, I know. But getting back together too fast usually does a lot more harm than good. The main reason is simple: the base problem has not been fixed. You have to get to the root of the problem and find out why the break up happened in the first place—what were the real reasons, e.g. lack of communication, respect, honest, etc. Then and only then should you attempt to proceed to put the relationship back together.

Trying to talk to your ex too much…

Believe me, I know it is tough. But in the beginning you have to lay low and steer clear of any communication with your ex. If they do call you, here are two absolute essentials to follow. First, make sure you talk about only positive things and do not mention the relationship unless they bring it up. And, number two, even then just say, “Yeah it’s probably best for both of us to just move on”.

I know, I know. It may seem absolutely crazy to say something like that. But once you distance yourself from your ex you really give them time to do some serious thinking. And here’s the real point: when they think they can have you whenever they want you become a floor mat. And in their eyes, they’ll just walk all over you. When you come off as independent and strong, they get a whole different picture. They’ll respect you a lot more because in their mind you can walk away from the relationship and still be very happy. See how quickly that can turn things around. So don’t make these fatal mistakes and your chances to reconcile with your ex and move forward into a strong, positive relationship are greatly improved.

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